Is Going Abroad Worthy?

Going
Abroad for

Just

*One Extra Bedroom***

*From an Pakistan Software Engineer who was in US*

*As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software
Engineer and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity.
When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true. *

*Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would
be staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have
earned enough money to settle down in
Pakistan. *

*My father was a government employee and after his retirement, the only
asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat. *

*I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and
lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents
every week using cheap international phone cards. Two
years passed, two
years of  Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the
foreign exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down. *

*Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10
days  of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my
ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually
enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss
anyone then there  will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through
all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was
forced to select one candidate. *

*In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get married in
2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After the marriage, it was
time to return to USA, after giving some money to my parents and telling
the
neighbors to look after them, we returned to
USA. *

*My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she started
feeling lonely. The frequency of calling
Pakistan increased to twice in a week
sometimes 3 times a week. Our savings started diminishing. After two more
years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were
gifted to us by the Almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked
me to come to
Pakistan so that they can see their grand-children. *

*Every year I decide to go to
Pakistan. But part work part monetary conditions
prevented it. Years went by and visiting
Pakistan was a distant dream. Then

suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I
tried but I couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to
Pakistan.


The  next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no
one to do the last rights the society members had done whatever they
could. I was  depressed. My
parents had passed away without seeing their grand
children. *

*After couple more years passed away, much to my children's dislike and
my wife's joy we returned to
Pakistan to settle down. I started to look for a
suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the
property  prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA. *


*My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in

Pakistan. My 2 children and I returned to USA after promising my wife I
would be back for good after two years. *

*Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and
my son was happy living in USA. I decided that had enough and wound-up
every  thing and returned to
Pakistan. I had just enough money to buy a decent 02
bedroom flat in a well-developed locality. *

*Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the
routine visit
to the nearby Mosque. My faithful wife has also left me and 

gone to the holy abode. *

*Sometimes I wondered was it worth all this? My father, even after
staying  in
Pakistan, had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more.*

*I lost my parents and children for just
ONE EXTRA BEDROOM. *

*Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing.
This
damned  cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing
their values and culture because of it. I get occasional cards from my
children  asking I am alright.
Well at least they remember me. *

*Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will be
performing my last rights, God Bless them. But the question still
remains 'was all this worth it?' I am still searching for an answer......
.........
.!!!! *